Moving back to Australia at almost 40, married, planning a family, and pivoting into organisational psychology. Part two of designing the life before the move: the Sydney-or-bust decision, the Macquarie Master's pathway, the realistic $120k starting salary, the suburb shortlist for studying and working full-time, and the lifestyle architecture for marriage, children, and loving family across two hemispheres. Less fun to write. Significantly more useful to live by.